Identify the disabler, state the needs, and provide a suggestion; “DISABLER disables me. I need NEED to ABILITY. SUGGESTION?"; Disability is an effect; one thing disables another. Reflect this in language using the active, transitive verb “Disables”.

An essential tool in my advocacy playbook; Disability is an active, transitive state.

“Your Expectations Are Disabling” by Emma Barnes @ Medium